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What is your biggest fear - speaking, rejection, or failing?

It is said that speaking in public is a bigger fear than death. I don't buy it. I think if someone put a gun to your head and said "speak in public or die" -- you'd find that lost William Jennings Bryan oration within you.

By far the biggest fear of salespeople is fear of failure. It has a cousin -- fear of rejection. Rejection is the pathway to failure -- if you fear it. While failure itself is real, the fear of failure it is a condition of the mind.

Earl Nightingale's legendary tape "The Strangest Secret" says, "You become what you think about." If that's true, why doesn't everyone think "success?" The answer is a combination of what we expose ourselves to and how we condition ourselves.

We live in a world of negative conditioning. The three biggest motivators are.fear, greed and vanity. They drive the American sales process -- and they drive the American salesperson.

There are degrees of failure in sales. Here are some external ones:   Continue...

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Jeffrey Gitomer is the author of The Sales Bible, and Customer Satisfaction is Worthless Customer Loyalty is Priceless. President of Charlotte-based Buy Gitomer, he gives seminars, runs annual sales meetings, and conducts internet training programs on selling and customer service. He can be reached at 704/333-1112 or e-mail salesman@gitomer.com

Your Success Story

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Jeffrey,
I attended your training in Atlanta and must say out of the 4 or 5 sales seminars I've attended, yours was without question the best, and the most fun to be a part of. You're right, leave the professional crap for the doctors and lawyers.

Anyway, I've been leaving this guy voicemail after voicemail for months. After attending your seminar, I thought I'd take a different approach. So I called him and I got his voicemail (of course) and I said, "Don, just letting you know I'd be by tomorrow to pick up the check you owe me. If that's a problem, give me a ring at.)

Well, no phone call. So about a week later I called and I said, "Don, I did some research for you. I opened up the newspaper and saw that your name WAS NOT in the obituaries section, so I know you're alive, and that's good news. If you make it in today, give me a call.)

Well, no phone call. The next voicemail message I left said, "Don, it's Josh Miller. I just wanted to let you know that I no longer work at KnowledgeStorm. Yeah, I've actually taken a leap into the used car business, and I've got one hell of a deal for you on a 1973 Chevette, 150K miles, rusted on the side, makes a bodacious screeching noise around turns, but other than that, runs like a champ. If you'd like to talk to me about it, give me a call at.)

Well, no phone call. So, I gave it one last shot, and even at this point, I'm beginning to feel the frustration. So, with my last attempt I told him on his voice mail that it was the Grim Reaper and you only get one phone call in life from Mr. Reaper, and we needed to talk, because it was his time. I said, "Time's up, Don!"

Well, he called me back today. After 4 months of hell, this guy called me back. You want to know what the first question he asked me was? "Where did you get your sales training?" I told him, and he wanted a link to the web-site so that he can sign up his sales guys for one of your seminars. Also, I closed the deal. I told him if you didn't have fun at this job you'd never survive.

Thanks Jeffrey!!
Josh Miller

 
 

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Salespeople want answers.  

Jeffrey,
I sell construction services, aka construction management. They call us business developers. I spend my time developing relationships, earning trust and chasing construction opportunities. I struggle with trying to sell a service not a product. I can't promise that the building will be completed on time and in budget and still keep a straight face. A lot can happen during the construction of a 20 million dollar building that takes 14 months to build. What's the difference between selling a service or selling a product in regards to your philosophy? How would you close the sale of a service like construction?
Reid

Reid, There is only one way to close a construction deal. Take your prospect to a finished building in person and let him talk to the developer. That way he'll get the truth about the good and the bad of construction and you'll get the order in a manner that builds a long-term relationship. In short this means no euphoric promises combined with no major surprises. This will generate not only a satisfied customer but also a loyal customer.

P.S. If you don't have such an example, switch jobs.

Best Regards,
Jeffrey Gitomer

Jeffrey,
How do you get avgerage salesperson to be a very good one?
Eric

Eric, An apple a day. First you have to dedicate yourself to wanting to become the very best you can be. Second, you have to love sales. And third, you have to study an hour a day without missing for five years. At the end of those 5 years you will have become a world-class expert at the science of selling. Guaranteed.

Best regards,
Jeffrey Gitomer


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  Willie Jolley - How to turn your Mega Setbacks into Magnificent Comebacks! 

Has life ever thrown you a curve ball?
Has life ever knocked you down?

Over the last few years I have criss-crossed the country researching the topic of turning setbacks into comebacks for a new book entitled "A Setback Is A Setup For A Comeback!" I met a lot of amazing people who shared their stories about turning setbacks into incredible comebacks. Some were celebrities like Tina Turner, Vanessa Williams, John Travolta, Lee Iacocca and Wally "Famous" Amos. But most were everyday, ordinary people like the man who had a small business, two small children and lived in a small town. He had a financial setback, got behind in his bills and eventually had to file bankruptcy. He lost his business, his home, his car -- everything. Many thought that would be the end of his story, but it was not. He came back and built a business called DaMark, which has become the biggest merchandising company in the country.

Or the ninth grade English teacher, who was diagnosed with terminal breast cancer. Her doctors told her she had six months to live, but she refused to accept it and said she was going to live 25 more years! All the doctors thought she was delusional. Well, she is now at 28 years and counting. She has beaten cancer four times (outliving most of her former doctors)! She shared a wonderful quote I love: "I might have cancer but cancer does not have me!" Then there was the lady who had worked her way up the corporate ladder only to be told she was now too old and not needed any more. She was fired and kicked to the curb, but she came back -- and bought the company! From these and other stories, I found that a setback truly is nothing but a setup for a comeback! I learned that:
1. Setbacks are never the end of the road, they are merely a bend in the road. The only ones who crash are the ones who fail to make the turn -- the ones who resist change.
2. Your perspective is critical in the comeback process. Like looking at a glass of milk as either half empty or half full. Do you see the setback as a "setback period" or a "setback, comma?" The answer will determine how you respond to the setback. If you see it as a "setback, period" most people will stop, pull the plug and give up. Yet, when you see it as a "setback, comma" you come to realize that it is just a brief pause in the action, and there is yet much to be accomplished.
3. There is a formula that all comebacks possess. It is called the VDAD (Vision, Decision, Action & Desire) formula. It works with business setbacks, personal setbacks, career setbacks, financial setbacks and relationship setbacks. Just as if you take two parts hydrogen and mix it with one part oxygen you always get water, the same is true for the VDAD formula. If you use these four elements you will be able to turn your trials into triumphs, your problems into possibilities, your pain into power and your setbacks into comebacks!

Four Quick Tips for Turning your Setbacks into Comebacks:
1) Stay focused on the goal, the vision. (If the dream is Big enough, the problems don1t matter).
2) Stay calm, do not panic! (When you panic you cut off the air to your brain and cannot think clearly).
3) Look at your options (You always have options, just take a few minutes and think positively).
4) Take action! (You might have lights, you might have cameras, but nothing happens until you take action!)
5) Take responsibility, whether you created it or it was thrust upon you! (Face it, trace it erase it and replace it.)
6) Use the 3 Fs (Faith, Focus and Follow Through). (Make a commitment to win in spite of the problem, and keep going until you do!)

Willie Jolley is the author of It Only Takes A Minute To Change Your Life and A Setback Is A Setup For A Comeback! and was named the "1999 Outstanding Motivational/Inspirational Speaker Of The Year" by Toastmasters International. He can be reached at 800-487-8899 or via email at willie@williejolley.com or www.williejolley.com

 

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